Thereʼs many kinds of G-spots as well. Physically, the area where you can find it and they are not all the same and those different sizes, it is on the anterior wall of the vagina just two inches inside, and there will be a sensitive kind of erectile tissue area. Sometimes you may not be able to feel anything until there is an energy and excitement that has been raised. Can we talk about the secret back door to the G-spot? KIM: Yes, absolutely. I thought you would never ask. SKY: Right, okay so this is very amazing. You can actually stimulate, itʼs like a turbo-charged, rocket-booster button for your G-Spot experience. The man or the woman can do it, at the same time, without even getting your finger wet. Isn’t that cool? It is just above the pubic bone: if you press in about a 45 degree angle towards the vagina on the outside. At the same time you are stimulating your G-Spot from the inside, you can actually almost create a mudra, a hand mudra like this. You can actually feel your fingers pressing against each other, with just a very thin wall between them. They can talk to each other and the energy can bounce back and forth. It is really exciting. That is a little bit about the mechanics. But I donʼt think G-Spot whispering is really about mechanics at all. It is about an energetic exchange, it is about deep listening, profound listening skills, listening with your heart into your partner. KIM: Beautiful. I completely agree with you. What and how do you think someone could cultivate that? Learn more at https://erinjgz.wordpress.com/2016/03/28/phallacy-for-men-and-extenders/ and http://pheromonedata.blogspot.com/2017/03/she-agrees-with-pheromones.html You articulated it really well. When someone is hearing that for the first time, what would they do to try to open that up or get to that place? SKY: I think you have to wake up the whole body. Really. And not just focus in on the genitals. It is a lot about connection; it is about safety; it is about surrender, more than anything else. Both partners have to surrender. The man, as I said, in my early upbringing I had to surrender all that, I had to let go of all that. There is nothing that I need to get , I am just here to give . So the man has to surrender this idea that if there is anything he is going to get; especially the idea that he is going to give her the orgasm. You can’t take credit for that! Itʼs her orgasm! KIM: So how would you… rephrase it instead and I think that is awesome! How would you rephrase that? How would I rephrase it? It would be something like: I am in spiritual, sexual service to my goddess. So I am here to serve. Whatever she needs in the moment, this is what we are going to do. Completely let go of any goal-oriented sexuality. Let’s wake up our energetic centers, let’s look in each others eyes, let’s open our hearts and open your vagina and be present and available for whatever may arise. There are so many different techniques, like erotic massage and gentle unfolding of the energy. Learn more at http://alphaguys.weebly.com/x4-labs.html
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